Just in case you're wondering where I've been - we've just got back from a great week's holiday in glorious Devon, which also included my little sister's wedding. It was a really good day, even if I had to work for part of it!
The address was based loosely on Fast Food outlets and not so loosely on Ephesians 4:20-32. So here are a few fast food alternatives for a healthy marriage.
1. Feelings and Choices rather than Fish and Chips. (Eph. 4:23 and 2 Cor. 5:17)
So many people base their life decisions on little more than feelings. And this can have serious consequences on any relationship. For the Christian we are having our mind renewed by God and therefore should think differently. Love is a choice - not just a feeling.
2. Bedtime Kiss rather than Burger King. (Eph. 4:26)
It is important that within a marriage a couple do not allow themselves to go to bed angry with each other. There are times when neither will want to take the first step towards an apology and reconciliation but it is vital that someone does. As head of the home I believe it is the husband's responsibility to make that first more.
When we were not interested in God he made the first move sending Jesus to die for us - so when we make the first move towards peace we are in good company.
3. Practical Help rather than Pizza Hut. (Eph. 4:28)
We all need to be doing something useful with our hands and it is important that both husband and wife play an equal (not necessarily the same) role in the relationship. If something needs doing - then do it.
4. Kindness, Forgiveness and Compassion rather than KFC. (Eph. 4:32)
We need to be kind in all that we do, and especially in what we say. We need to be aware of the needs of those around us and act accordingly - Jesus often saw and had compassion. And forgiveness is vital for any relationship to be a success as we all make mistakes and get things wrong. Once again Jesus is our example - having forgiven us so much he asks us to forgive each other.
Following the service other suggestions were given to me. Keep Following Christ for KFC for example. Maybe you have others you want to add.
