For those who grew up on a diet of Friends, the question 'How you doin?' was one of Joey's favourite lines - not asked because he was in any way concerned with how you were actually doing, but because he thought it gave him some success with the ladies. It was always about him, never about you.
But how are you doing?
One of my targets for this year was to run 1500 miles over the year. Another was a sub four hour marathon. If you read this blog regularly you will know that the marathon objective went horribly wrong back in April. But all the training at least put me well ahead of where I needed to be to get to 1500 miles by December 31st.
1500 miles equates to just over 4.1 miles a day, or 28.8 miles a week.
Unfortunately, for one reason or another - coupled with a 'can I really be bothered?' attitude, my running over the last couple of months has slipped. So I was a bit shocked when I looked at my training page on Fetcheveryone earlier this week to find this.
Up 3.3. Earlier in the year this number had been over a hundred.
I was only 3.3 miles ahead of where I needed to be at this point in the year. This number decreases by 4.1 miles everyday - the daily average. So one more day of missing a run and that would slip to being behind schedule for the first time this year. Action was required. I've only run more than 28.8 miles in a week twice in the last two months - now I'm going to have to do it every week for the rest of the year!
What goals and targets did you set yourself at the beginning of the year, at Easter, at the beginning of your new job, as you started university, last week ...? How are you doing?
Whether those goals were health related or fitness related or to do with relationships or attitudes or your walk as a disciple of Jesus ... how are you doing?
Sometimes we're not where we hoped we'd be because our goals were unrealistic. Sometimes life just gets in the way - things we never expected happen - and we do need to be sensible and flexible. But sometimes we're not where we hoped we'd be because we've taken our eye off the ball; we've lost focus; we've allowed other things to get in the way; we've slipped into a 'can't be bothered' frame of mind.
If that sounds familiar then let's not beat ourselves up about how rubbish we are - because that tends to make things worse - but let's refocus, maybe set some new short term goals, and then get on with it.
Can you spot at least three differences between these two photos?
On Sunday we held our Harvest Thanksgiving Service - and as well as supporting the work of BMS World Mission we also collected a range of dried and tinned goods to help support our local homeless Night Shelter.
The Night Shelter is overseen by Cricklewood Homeless Concern now known as Ashford Place. As a part of their provision they organise, between November and March, a number of venues around north Brent which provide a hot evening meal, a place to sleep and breakfast for around 20 people who would otherwise be sleeping on streets. One of the local Methodist churches is a venue, this year opening from Saturday evening through to Monday morning every weekend over the winter months. Whilst a lot of the work does fall into the hands of a few brilliant and dedicated people at Queensbury Methodist, it is great to be a part of a team drawn from a whole range of local churches. Each church will sign up to a number of evenings and provide the food and volunteers to run the shelter that night.
It might not seem much in the big scheme of things - but as we saw on Sunday, from Matthew 25:31-46, it's not about saving the world all in one go - it's about meeting need one person at a time.
As Mother Teresa said, 'If you can't feed a hundred people then feed just one'.
For those struggling to find all three differences: the tin of hot dogs has moved from front left; a tin of beans has moved front right to centre; and a tin of tomatoes in the middle has been rotated.
When you go to churches in certain parts of the world you are required to leave your shoes at the door - because that is the culture, and a mark of respect.
There are other churches that you may sometimes go to where you are required to leave your brain at the door. At least that is the way it may seem. Contexts where we are not encouraged to think, and ask questions - instead we are supposed to accept what we are told and to have faith. Situations where the intellectual world of science or medicine, or the world of culture are kept at arms length and often seen as the enemy.
But, if you're looking for something to stretch your mind and get you thinking you may be interested in BMS World Mission's Catalyst Live events in November. Tickets are going fast so order soon.
Catalyst Live Promo from
BMS World Mission on
Vimeo.
Let me know if you're going to Reading - I'll see you there.
No idea what this new Channel 5 series is going to be like but if you're looking for something to talk about in your coffee break at work you could do a lot worse...
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