Stories are important. We all have a story. We are all part of a story, whether we realise it or not. How we understand that story will shape our lives, the way we view ourselves and others, and the choices we make.
Tuesday, 26 April 2022
Which story are you listening to?
Stories are important. We all have a story. We are all part of a story, whether we realise it or not. How we understand that story will shape our lives, the way we view ourselves and others, and the choices we make.
Friday, 4 March 2022
My attitude to money - Reflection 08
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Tuesday, 1 March 2022
Doing something for Lent?
Over the years I've posted and re-posted a number of posts on Shrove Tuesday and Ash Wednesday with a few thoughts on Lent.
I come from a church tradition where Lent is not a thing.
I'm now part of church tradition where Lent is still not officially a thing - but the church family is made up of people from all kinds of backgrounds who draw on all kinds of resources and influences. The idea of pausing and reflecting and preparing for the season of Easter seems like a good idea. It's certainly not a bad idea.
It's always good to have those points in the year where we stop and reflect. An opportunity to maybe reflect on what we're doing or not doing. What direction we're headed in. What our priorities are. An opportunity for a fresh start or a time of recommitment. And if nothing else, Lent provides us with one of those points in the year.
I mentioned on Sunday that I would flag up some resources for anyone who is wanting to do something a bit different from their normal pattern of spiritual disciplines over the next few weeks. So, here are a few ideas.
Lectio 365 from 24-7 Prayer
I know that many of you make use of the Lectio365 app. The app uses the model of PRAY - Pausing, Rejoicing and Reflecting, Asking and Yielding - each day to help us encounter God.They will be starting their Lent series of readings, reflections and prayers tomorrow. If you've not used the app before you can find out more here - or head to the place where you normally get your apps and look for Lectio 365. They also have an app Lection 365 for Familes when is especially designed for ... families. Both these resources are from the 24-7 Prayer team.
The Lent Encounter from The Bible Society
Those of you who enjoyed Andrew Ollerton's 'The Bible Course' might be interested to take a look at 'The Lent Encounter' by the Bible Society. It promises:
- Andrew Ollerton takes us on a tour of the Holy Land with videos of places from some of the most significant points of Jesus' life.
- Bible Society staff share personal reflections on themes such as love, rejection, hope and peace.
- Prayers and conversation starters for you to reflect on and share with others.
- Weekly ‘Wonder Walks’ with a guide to explore God’s word and meditate as you walk.
- Go deeper in to God's word and consider some big life questions along the way
You can sign up at the link above.
Lent Devotional from Tearfund
Again, if daily emails are your thing then Tearfund provide a Lent devotional that promises bite-sized daily reflections, prayers and poems to help you draw nearer to God as we approach Easter.
If none of those ideas grabs you - there's plenty more out there.
Why do I do what I do? - Reflection 07
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Wednesday, 9 February 2022
Breaking down cultural barriers - Reflection 6
At our 4pm service on Sunday we explored the theme of ‘Breaking down Barriers’. If you’ve not yet had a chance to listen to Keith’s talk you’ll find it here.
Between finishing teaching and starting as a full-time Baptist minister I spent four years at college. The first two years were full-time at All Nations Christian College and the second two were as a student minister. I was a student minister at a church in north London and then spent a couple of days a week at Spurgeon’s College in south London.
When I went to All Nations, I was planning on returning to teaching overseas. I hadn’t got as far as thinking as who that would be with – but BMS World Mission was a serious contender. All Nations specialise in cross-cultural training. Training missionaries is what they do. The course I took was in ‘Biblical and cross-cultural studies’.
There is a saying that goes something like, ‘a goldfish isn’t aware that it’s surrounded by water until it’s taken out of its tank’. And culture is a bit like that. Generally speaking we’re unaware of it until we’re taken out of it and put in a different culture. We’re unaware of how much of our lives are shaped by our culture – and how other people might think and behave very differently.
One of the great things about the courses at All Nations is that they didn’t necessarily give many answers – but they taught you to ask the right sort of questions.
The apostle Paul understood culture. He straddled the Jewish and the Roman worlds. He travelled extensively. His strategy as a missionary was to adapt his methods of sharing the gospel depending on his audience (1 Corinthians 9:19-23). He didn’t compromise the message – but he wanted to remove unnecessary barriers. That’s why he used his Jewish name, Saul, when talking with Jews and his Roman name, Paul, when talking with Romans.
We talked on Sunday about ethnic differences as well as generational and class differences. And there will be other differences that will be relevant for our context. My original presentation was black writing on a yellow background – but after a visit to the Sight Loss Friendly Church website I changed it to yellow writing on black background. Just one less thing to get in the way of someone responding to the gospel.
How much of what we do as a church is cultural? And how much of that is a barrier to the community we are trying to reach?
Thursday, 27 January 2022
What should Christians watch? - Reflection 04
But on the flip side – our life is very different to life in the first century – or even earlier. And there is so much of our modern life that the Bible simply does not mention. And so if you restrict yourself to only doing what you read in the Bible you are going to struggle with all sorts of questions and issues that face us today.
And so whatever this life that Jesus calls us to looks like – the chances are, it’s going to be very different to the lives of those around us – both in terms of what we do and what we think.
On Sunday I mentioned that for me, one of the choices that I make, is generally speaking, not watching films that are rated above a 12. There is a huge range of content on the internet now. It used to be that if you wanted to watch a film it required a trip to Block Buster and you had to walk out with an actual video cassette. Now, within the privacy of your own bedroom, you can watch almost anything within a couple of mouse clicks. And so setting the filter at 12 helps reduce the temptation of watching something that will be unhelpful in my walk with Jesus.
And each of us will need to make our own decisions – in terms of what helps and what hinders our relationship with Jesus. We need to recognise that some of these decisions may be inconvenient, costly and painful. But are they as inconvenient, costly or painful as the (non-literal) measures mentioned by Jesus? And that’s part of the point. We don’t just need to make choices that are convenient and which fit in with our current lives – but sometimes we need to be prepared to make decisions that will be life-changing and costly.
Thursday, 20 January 2022
Reflection 03 - The one about reconciliation
Wednesday, 12 January 2022
Reflection 02 - the one about standing out in a crowd
On Sunday Graham introduced our spring teaching series – Living Jesus’ Way. We’re going to be listening in as Jesus teaches his disciples (and the crowd) in Matthew 5-7. We often refer to this section as ‘The Sermon on the Mount’. If you’ve not listened to Graham yet, I would encourage you to do so – you’ll find it here: https://youtu.be/Ngico_9WOMM
Our logo/graphic for this series is a little orange fish swimming the opposite way to a school of white fish. Living Jesus’ Way will often mean that we will think and therefore behave differently to those around us.
Just look again about the list of ‘blessed are the …’ that Graham talked us through on Sunday (Matthew 5:3-12). Very few, if any, of these values and characteristics would make it on to most people’s list of ‘blessings’. And quite a few of these values and characteristics are looked down on and despised – think about humility, meekness, mercy and purity for example.
Some of these values and characteristics are out of our control. Mourning and persecution, for example, are to some extent out of our hands, even if they are to be expected. But how do we respond when they are our experience?
Being different and standing out from the crowd is really tough. We live in an age where diversity and difference is celebrated and yet it is done so within a broader context of conformity. Tolerance often appears to be a value that trumps all others – as long as that means believing everyone is right.
Swimming against the tide is exhausting. It’s much easier to roll over, float on your back and go with the flow. How are you making sure that you’re strengthened, encouraged, refreshed and patched up ready to go again each week?
Our vision talks about being disciples – and part of what church is, is coming together, to meet with others, and to be renewed and equipped to go again because it’s tough being an orange fish.
Friday, 7 January 2022
Adzuki beans have a low carbon footprint
Back at the beginning of December, I talked about an app - Impact Score Shopping - that I have started to use in my attempt to become more informed about the environmental impact of the things that I eat. You can read that blog here.
One of our successes, in terms of eating a lot less meat, has been a meat-free chilli which our three girls didn't actually realise was meat-free until I told them after the meal. We haven't had a lot of joy with meat lookalikes in the past. Two of our children don't like soya alternatives and the other is allergic to Quorn. (Google it - it's a thing - and is to do with the protein derived from a fungus).
We have tried Plant Chef burgers - and everyone will eat them - but they're not a low carbon footprint product. Obviously, they're healthier than meat burgers and suitable for vegans - but in terms of the environmental impact they're not as good as they could be.
Back to the chilli. The only difference to a meat chilli was substituting Adzuki beans for the mince.If you've never had adzuki beans before they're very similar to kidney beans but a lot smaller - and as it turns out, if you are an unobservant teenager they're not dissimilar to mince when cooked in a chilli!
I first came across adzuki beans as a substitution for kidney beans in our weekly supermarket delivery. When asked if I was happy to accept the substitution I had no idea what they were, having never heard of them before - nor had the delivery driver.
Adzuki beans are a low carbon footprint product as are kidney beans and tinned tomatoes. They should get 4 out of 6 badges as the tin is recyclable.I use a Colman's chilli mix which now comes in a fully recyclable packet - but it may well be better to use chilli powder, a stock cube, garlic and something like cumin - something to look at later.
Fry the onion and then add everything else (400g adzuki beans, 400g kidney beans, 400g tinned chopped tomatoes, packet mix made up with 150ml of cold water) and allow to simmer for about 15 mins.
Serve with rice and top with grated cheese. The only good thing about the cheese is that it is UK made.
Because calculating carbon emissions for individual products is so complicated it is impossible to put an actual figure in terms of kgCO2 as to how much better this recipe is than the meat version. But it is a step in the right direction. It would be even better without cheese.
Wednesday, 5 January 2022
2022 - Reflection 01 - the one where it's important to get the right balance
Happy New Year.
On Sunday we were thinking about how we can be prepared to grow in 2022 – not simply to survive another year of uncertainty, but to grow and see lives transformed. If you’ve not had a chance to listen yet you’ll find it here: https://youtu.be/ZOuOj1qbEWY
I find this a challenging topic to talk about because it can be hard to get the right balance. It’s right that we think about our faith in terms of a relationship with Jesus. That’s why we started with Hebrews 12:1-2 – the importance of fixing our eyes on Jesus. We’re called to follow Jesus. That’s why we use the language of walking in our Vision. It’s also right that we talk about ‘being’ and not only about ‘doing’. Afterall the gospels are littered with people who on the outside did all the right things but didn’t have the heart attitude to match.
And so it’s not about finding the things that you need to do in order to grow in your faith. It’s about catching a fresh glimpse of how much God loves us and what Jesus has done for us on the cross and wanting to respond to that love. But how we respond is important.
It’s about recognising that when it comes to people who grew in their faith – there are common things that they did which helped them on that journey. It’s about not seeing these as things that I need to do in order to become more like Jesus, but that as I become more like Jesus these are things that I am going to increasingly do.
Another way of thinking about these things is that they are a bit like scaffolding. They are not the tower that is being built but they will help you as you build. They provide a framework for what is being built.
It’s also important to remember that healthy human relationships don’t just happen. Even healthy marriages don’t just happen. They take work and effort. When a relationship is new, spending time together is not really an issue – you put considerable effort into being together. But after some time you might find that you have to deliberately and intentionally make sure that certain things happen.
If you want to go out for a meal with your partner you have to plan weeks ahead, arrange childcare, put it in the diary, write it on the calendar. You will discover that there will be times when you don’t want to put the bins out but you choose to do it because of love. You recognise that you need to put boundaries in place to protect your relationship.
And so it is with our relationship with Jesus – it won’t just happen. Especially when you consider that we are in a spiritual battle and we have an enemy who wants to do everything in his power to derail our attempts to spend time with Jesus. Whether that be a distracting thought the moment we sit down to pray, or pointing out that we’ve already failed in our New Year resolution to read the Bible every day and it’s only the 5th January so what’s the point…
Or else our enemy goes the other way and we get so absorbed in the box-ticking of our Bible in a Year reading plan that all the joy and time for devotion is sucked out of the experience. We churn through the chapters with no time to speak or listen to God. We read God’s word but we don’t allow it to change us.
Whatever it is that you need to put in place to grow closer to Jesus can I encourage you to do it today. Start small if you need to. Be encouraged by the thought that Jesus wants to spend time with you. Like the father in the story of the prodigal son he is on the lookout for the first signs that we are making a bit of space, and a bit of time to sit with him.
Wednesday, 15 December 2021
Reflection 15 - the one with lots of holes
On Sunday we looked at the story of the magi visiting Jesus. If you’ve not watched it yet you’ll find it here: https://youtu.be/SAK3JIoqss4
This is quite an unusual choice of passage for a Sunday before Christmas, but I wanted to look at it because of the potential link with our Daniel series.
The Bible is full of holes – just as every written account of anything is full of holes. You simply can’t write down everything about an event and nor would you want to. If you wrote down everything, the important things would get lost in the detail. So, the bits that were written down are important.
But the holes naturally invite us to try and fill them in. That’s what we do when we imagine ourselves into a Bible scene. It’s what film makers such as the Lumo Project do when they create films of the gospel accounts.
And there are all sorts of holes that have been filled in regarding the Christmas story. So much so that very few of us even realise that the things we think we know about Jesus’ birth are actually holes that have been filled in for us by the Victorians and nativity plays.
On Sunday I attempted to fill in a massive hole by suggesting that the magi came to Jerusalem because of their links to Daniel – who was himself one of the magi of Babylon. They’d heard his stories and read his prophesies that put a 490-year marker on the date when the Messiah would come. And so they were waiting and watching.
Of course, we don’t know that they actually came from Babylon or that they’d ever heard of Daniel. But I think it is more than likely that they did and they had.
I don’t think it’s possible to read the Bible without trying to fill in the holes. That’s one of the ways that stories work. It’s why people have an issue when their favourite book is turned into a film – because someone else’s version of events (even if they don’t change the plot line) is different to the pictures they’d created in their head.
So what things should we watch out for when we fill in the holes?
Our faith should be built on things that are actually there in the text and not on the holes. Nothing that I said on Sunday in terms of the impact the story has on our lives or what it shows us about Jesus was built on my speculation about the magi. The truths that Matthew wants to communicate remain true whether or not the magi had heard of Daniel. Our filling in of the holes should be consistent with the rest of the Bible.
The more we understand the Bible and the cultures within which it was written the better we will be at filling in the holes. If you’ve ever visited a museum or art gallery you’ve probably seen some massive paintings of scenes from the Bible by famous artists – where the characters look more like 17th Century Europeans than 1st Century Jews. In European art the magi are often portrayed as elaborately dressed formidable oriental kings. And maybe they were that. But as we saw on Sunday, for Matthew’s audience, they were also a bit of a joke and certainly a surprise. At one extreme they were a bunch of crooks who try and make up interpretations to dreams hoping that they’d come true eventually – and at the other they were a group of people in league with the forces of evil and opposed to God’s kingdom.
There’s lots more I could say, but one final encouragement. When we read the Bible and consciously (or subconsciously) fill in the holes we should read prayerfully, inviting God to speak to us through the Holy Spirit. Ask that the Holy Spirit will guide our imaginations as we visualise what we’re reading. Thank God that the Spirit who inspired Matthew to choose this story to be a part of his gospel is the same Spirit who speaks to us as we read about the magi two thousand years later.
Wednesday, 8 December 2021
Reflection 14 - the one about reading difficult passages
Now that we’ve come to the end of Daniel – how did you find it? Is this the first time you’ve engaged with chapters 7-12? Have you learnt anything through the talks and home group questions? Are you going to miss the Old Testament just a little bit as we head back into the New Testament for the spring and summer terms? If you’ve ever wondered why Holiday Clubs only ever look at the first half of Daniel – now you know.








